Let us be frank and ask ourselves this simple but yet intriguing question:
Why do we get angry/unhappy?
Possible factors could be differences in opinions, accumulated stress, wanting the best for someone or even nothing. (yes, think about it. we do get angry over nothing sometimes.)
Each one of us has different limits of stress we can take before the volcano in us erupts.
That's when a possibility of you taking it out on someone occurs, and you may regret it in time to come. That's what i do not want.
But this special someone of mine does not do exactly what the above picture depicts.
Instead, she keeps it in herself and, like a devil awaiting to crucify someone*, she ignores all my COUNTLESS pleas to ask her what's wrong. :(
(* just stating an analogy, i'm not anti-christ or something)
many a times, i'm left helpless and not knowing what to do.
i could try, but i'm never the type of person who could turn the tide by making you smile within hours after a certain fit of anger.
perhaps, this is the weakness of weaknesses of mine.
or there could be more weaknesses, i don't know.
but what i do know, is that my spirit is willing. ALWAYS willing.
willing to know what went wrong, willing to not repeat the mistake and learn from it.
so, i thought about it and the next time a fit of anger happens, perhaps it would help if you ask yourself these questions:
1) Why did the person did what he did?
(remember he/she always want the best for you, let alone hurt you on purpose or put you at a disadvantage.)
2) Ask yourself how long is the incident worth the anger? How long do you think the person needs, to learn from this mistake?
(Putting up temper tantrums over a small** incident, is it worth it? :/)
[**the 'size' of the incident varies with both parties]
3) Lastly, do you think he/she will learn from that very mistake?
(how much importance does he/she place on you? and that 'supposed mistake' he/she made.)
note to remember:
tied as one, this is how it is to me.
*refer to your inbox*
(how much importance does he/she place on you? and that 'supposed mistake' he/she made.)
note to remember:
tied as one, this is how it is to me.
*refer to your inbox*
